most times, we are unable to accept the truth, the truth which is not what we wanted it to be. most times we try to ignore or try to be optimistic and think things will take for a change.but ultimately, that leads to more pain because our hopes get higher and the disppointment is greater. we feel insecure in times of sadness and we try to live in self-delusion that tomorrow will be much better, that tomorrow maybe things will go the way we want. but most times , we are faced with disppointment because we hoped for too much. maybe we should just accept things as it is. but it is difficult indeed. the pain takes time to go away but still no matter how long, it has left an impact , a scar on your life and no way can u remove it. perhaps it is why we have regrets. regrets as to why we allowed it to happen and we often wonder if we could turn back time, would we have done something different? back then i wouldn for it created beautiful memories but now as i think back, maybe i would because then it wouldnt hurt so much now.
